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Bar and Bat Mitzvah in Israel: The Ultimate Family Sourcebook,
by Deborah Rosenbloom and Judith Isaacson
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Double-Pronged Mitzvah

7: Gifts and More Gifts

6: Ben's Teffilin Tiyul

5: Bar Mitzvah Gibush

Bar Mitzvah in the Wake of Terrorism

4: The Magic Age of 13

3: Ben's Bar Mitzvah

2: Ben's Bar Mitzvah

Lila's Bat Mitzvah. 1

New Online Diary: Ben's Bar Mitzvah

Online Diary of a Bat Mitzvah Planning Parent

Post Bat Mitzvah Reflections

 
Yeladim
Yeladim -- Council for the Child in Placement
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Boiling water together
"Gam Etzleynu Kacha" -- "It's like that for us too". That phrase is repeated constantly at programs for Jewish and Arab teens living in residential homes in northern Israel.

The two photographs show
Jewish children from a residential home in the town of Karmiel, with Israeli-Arab children from the town of Tamra, together on a camping trip.
Bringing Israeli Jews and Arabs together to break down myths and other pre-conceived ideas is a formidable task in what is rapidly becoming a war torn and tired country. From the news one might think nobody is communicating, all the cross-cultural programs are breaking down and the strides that have been taken over the past decades are for naught. Fortunately, for some, that is a myth.
Dialogues and discussion groups are continuing. At times creative programming and program alterations are required to maintain and continue groups, however the will exists and continues to grow.
Baking pita bread on a
taboun [oven]
Yeladim, the Council for the Child in Placement, seeks to create mirror opportunities for children living in residential homes to those living with their families. Raising the next generation to become responsible and view their neighbors as well as themselves with respect and to forge lasting friendships are major goals of this organization.
In the north, joint recreational programs for Jewish and Arab children living in residential homes help bring kids together. The programs which began in 1995 and continued through 2001, were halted due to a lack of funding. The programs for children, sometimes with and without their parents enabled them to have fun together and to begin to build relationships.


The participants came from residential homes in Jewish and Arab small towns in the Galilee: Haifa, Ibillin, Carmiel, Kiryat Biyalik, Maj El Krum, Kfar Yehezkiel, Rama and Tzippori. Program activities include fun days in amusement parks, hikes, sports, art, cooking, and theater outings.
Joint sponsorship came from the Haifa Municipality, non-profit organizations, foundations, corporate gifts and private donations. Unfortunately the funds have run out, and the kids are losing out.
As the programs progressed, serious discussions took place dealing with how we are the same, and issues that confront us.
The program was summed up by Anis, one of the children who participated in the program: "We are the same. Although we have different customs and religions, we are truly alike. We even share the same problems. I want the relationship that began here to continue. Maybe we can even visit one another in our dorms and homes. Peace doesn't only come from above, it is built between people, and especially between children, because we are the future."
Local volunteer families are needed to act as foster/adoptive families for 14-16 year olds living in residential homes. Volunteer families help these adolescents learn to live in a family atmosphere. The kids come to live with the families on weekends, holidays and 1/2 of the summer vacation. To get involved in this and other programs of Yeladim., contact Yeladim.
Text: M. Kaplan-Green. Photos courtesy of Yeladim.
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