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Bar and Bat Mitzvah in Israel: The Ultimate Family Sourcebook,
by Deborah Rosenbloom and Judith Isaacson
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Double-Pronged Mitzvah

7: Gifts and More Gifts

6: Ben's Teffilin Tiyul

5: Bar Mitzvah Gibush

Bar Mitzvah in the Wake of Terrorism

4: The Magic Age of 13

3: Ben's Bar Mitzvah

2: Ben's Bar Mitzvah

Lila's Bat Mitzvah. 1

New Online Diary: Ben's Bar Mitzvah

Online Diary of a Bat Mitzvah Planning Parent

Post Bat Mitzvah Reflections

 
Dorfman
The Ultimate Tour & Learn
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Both a personal triumph and a service to generations of Jews past, present and future, Rivka and Ben-Zion Dorfman have succeeded in documenting European synagogues and communities. Synagogues Without Jews and the Communities that Built and Used Them won the National Jewish Book Award for the year 2000.
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The project is the culmination of five years of research by a couple who have been married for over 50 years, lived on two continents where they built separate careers and raised their two daughters. As retirees, they worked together for the first time on an idea that became a passion. For a couple who'd always been very independent of each other, they suddenly found themselves together 24/7. Rivka earned an M.A. in Ancient Semitic Languages and Art of The Ancient Near East at Columbia University and studied art history and Jewish art at The Hebrew University of Jerusalem. "I'm an educator and Ben-Zion is a geneticist. Ben-Zion put the project together on a scientific basis," says Rivka.
"It was a period of fulfillment and creativity. Even though there were tensions it was the best period of our life," says Rivka. "We've gained so much. Jews and non-Jews whom we met and the local volunteers all added another dimension to the book."
When they began the project, which extended over a five-year research period, their aim was to show that synagogues, including their art and architecture are an important aspect of Jewish culture.
The project evolved over a five-year research period, during which they traveled to Europe for a total of 54 weeks. On their visits they collected information and photographed 350 synagogue buildings. During that time, they built an archive of 20,000 pictures. According to Rivka Dorfman, "Our attention was on buildings that had been a synagogue at a given time. We recognized that we had a valuable archive of synagogue histories and knew it should be published," continued Rivka.
In fact, their hunch was correct and prior to publishing the book, the Dorfmans wrote a comprehensive article for the Encyclopedia Judaica with over 100 photographs and texts. They also developed an exhibition that was displayed in Yad Va'shem, from 1994 to 1995; at the World Jewish Congress in 1996; and in the Knesset in 1996.
"We realized that we needed to put our findings in a book," says Ben-Zion.
As originally conceived, the Dorfmans planned to study only the art and architecture of the synagogues. But as the project evolved "we realized that the nishama (the soul) was missing. That was when we began to research the communities. We made a point of finding the small villages and towns, continues Rivka. "We were amazed that Jews had lived in so many places."
They found many buildings still standing in various degrees of desecration and ruin. The Hebrew descriptions on and in the buildings helped the Dorfmans to understand what the central hopes and beliefs were to each kehillah (community).
"We were received in a very friendly way," says Ben-Zion. "People (in the communities) often went to find someone who spoke German where there was no other common language. Volunteers in Jerusalem, who'd lived in the countries we'd visited were willing to transcribe or translate interviews." At times when communication was an issue, the Dorfmans gave villagers questionnaires to complete, which they brought back to Jerusalem for translation.
"In many places we found Jews remaining," said Ben-Zion. "Most of the people were courteous and friendly. The older people had no trouble identifying the synagogue even if the building had been taken over to be a storeroom."
As they entered a new town, "We found a synagogue and could identify it was we were driving by. The architecture was often distinctive and the structure was in or close to the town square," said Ben-Zion.
"We were amazed at how many people who we met on the street had a Jewish ancestor," says Rivka. It gave the Dorfmans a sense of the widespread assimilation and intermarriage.
Aside from townspeople, the Dorfmans met with mayors, museum curators, and many others. Via word of mouth and validated through University letters attesting to the fact that they were recognized researchers, the couple found many doors opened to them. They found their work was appreciated on a local level as well. They were consulted on issues that arose with regards to synagogues that were being restored to historic conditions.
"In the town of Novibijov, the man who runs the museum is a scholar," recalls Ben-Zion. "He'd studied the Jewish cemetery and is know trying to learn Hebrew so that he can read the tombstones."
In a small ghetto in the town of Kosovohora there was a synagogue in an advanced state of desecration. The people who'd moved into the "Jewish homes" around the synagogue were concerned with the research. When the Jews were deported they'd moved into the houses. They remembered a great deal including which family lived in each home and the family business. Additionally, they maintained the Jewish cemetery.
"Very few Jews came to visit many of these towns since the Holocaust. Some people hosted us overnight. They were very generous," continues Rivka.
After talking with the Dorfmans it is no surprise that they found others to be generous. The couple, who were married in 1945, speaks with such warmth and enthusiasm, that it is hard not to get excited and want to join in their work.
In fact while they were on a recent lecture tour in the US, where they gave 40 lectures in 29 cities over a five-month period, two women elected to make career changes to study Jewish art, on an academic level. That news "gave us great satisfaction," said Rivka with pride.

Text by M. Kaplan-Green.