@the source homepage Issue #13
Bar and Bat Mitzvah in Israel: The Ultimate Family Sourcebook,
by Deborah Rosenbloom and Judith Isaacson
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Double-Pronged Mitzvah

7: Gifts and More Gifts

6: Ben's Teffilin Tiyul

5: Bar Mitzvah Gibush

Bar Mitzvah in the Wake of Terrorism

4: The Magic Age of 13

3: Ben's Bar Mitzvah

2: Ben's Bar Mitzvah

Lila's Bat Mitzvah. 1

New Online Diary: Ben's Bar Mitzvah

Online Diary of a Bat Mitzvah Planning Parent

Post Bat Mitzvah Reflections

 
Silence
Sounds of Silence
In what now seems like another lifetime, when we didn't hesitate to visit an Arab village, we began our day with a visit to Abu Gosh, located in the Judean Hills on the road to Jerusalem. This small and picturesque village, which lies within Israel's pre-1967 borders, is home to both Christian and Moslem populations -- with a Jewish Haredi [strictly Orthodox] neighborhood at the edge.
In a way, Abu Gosh is a microcosm of the Middle East and the area is a vision of our dreams of peace. In the center of the town is the Church of Notre Dame of the Ark, within which lies a convent. In a curious mix of personalities and religions, according to the Sisters, the church marks the last place where the MishkanKiryat Yearim. [Ark of the Convenant] rested until King David conveyed it ceremoniously to Jerusalem. The church has original mosaics that are several centuries old and a painting of King David playing his harp. The church and convent are located in
At the entrance to the complex of Kiryat Yearim, the following text is posted: "Border of Judah during the period of the Judges: This then was the lot of the tribe of the Children of Judah. And the border was drawn to Baalah, which is Kiryat Yearim. (Joshua 15:1-9).
During the Canaanite period, the place was called Baalah, the sanctuary of an ancient goddess. During the Hebrew period, it was called Qiryat Baal: city of Baal, the name of one of the local gods. The name was changed to Kiryat Yearim, the City of Forests."
During the Jewish holidays of Sukkot and Shavuot, concerts are held in the church. The concerts are popular among Israelis of all faiths. For concert schedules, click here.
We waited by the closed gates to the church until they were opened by a Sister who greeted us warmly and welcomed us. She asked us to be silent unless in the church building itself.
The Silent Retreat also fascinated us - although we admit it would be challenging to be silent for very long. The air itself felt calm and hushed: an oasis of peace where pilgrims from all over the world come to meditate.
Outside the vicinity of the Retreat we commented to the Sister on the confluence of the three religions in the area the church, an Arab mosque and close by, the ultra orthodox neighborhood of Telse Stone. The nun looked up at the blue, blue sky and said, "Yes, and all these groups are engaged in prayer, praying for peace."
Among the residents of Telse Stone, meet a Sofer Stam -- If you phone ahead, you can learn how tefillin and Torah scrolls are made and purchase tefillin. Appropriate dress includes skirts of modest length and tops with sleeves for girls and women and headcoverings for all males.
All that silence had made us hungry so we then went to have lunch at Abu Shukri, the place where Israelis in the know go for a Middle Eastern vegetarian meal, including warm humous [mashed chick peas] with fava beans and hard boiled eggs, humous with pine nuts and olive oil, eggplant in tehina and Turkish coffee to end the meal. For dessert we crossed the street to the bakery, where rows and rows of freshly baked deserts are on display. The owner's son urged us to recline on a couch in the corner and smoke a Nargila (water pipe) with an apple-flavored tobacco. Evidently, at night the bakery is filled with Nargila smokers lying on the couches -- it must be quite a scene.
[to be continued next month]

Text by D. Rosenbloom
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The Church of Notre Dame offers accommodations, single and double rooms, for groups and individuals.
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Sofer Stam
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Abu Shikri
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